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How family forgiveness can help heal family dysfunctions



"Forgiveness is my favourite muscle in the human body"

~Dr BJ Miller


I recently began a forgiveness process with every member of my family as part of my 12-step recovery process.



Like most families, mine is dysfunctional in many ways and over the years we've been blessed to have experienced a lot of healing as a whole and individually.



What has made the most impact on our healing has been when members of the family have forgiven each other for past transgressions and chosen to let go of the past and move forward.



I understand that this is not appropriate for all family situations but if you feel ready, I would like to offer some reasons why forgiveness is important for healing a dysfunctional family dynamic.





Family forgiveness is important for several reasons




Healing and Reconciliation: Forgiveness allows family members to heal emotional wounds and move toward reconciliation. It provides an opportunity to repair damaged relationships and restore trust.




Emotional Well-being: Holding onto grudges and resentment can negatively impact the emotional well-being of family members. Forgiveness releases the burden of anger and bitterness, promoting emotional healing and fostering a healthier family environment.




Strengthening Bonds: Forgiveness strengthens the bonds between family members. It creates a sense of unity, empathy, and understanding, fostering a supportive and loving family dynamic.




Role Modeling: By practicing forgiveness within the family, parents and older family members can serve as positive role models for younger generations. They teach the importance of empathy, compassion, and conflict-resolution skills.




Conflict Resolution: Forgiveness is an essential component of effective conflict resolution. It allows family members to address and resolve conflicts in a constructive manner, promoting open communication and understanding.




Building Trust: Forgiveness plays a crucial role in rebuilding trust within the family. It allows family members to let go of past hurts and work towards rebuilding a foundation of trust and mutual respect.




Promoting Growth and Change: Forgiveness provides an opportunity for personal growth and change. It allows family members to learn from their mistakes, take responsibility for their actions, and work towards positive change.




Forgiveness in families promotes emotional well-being, strengthens relationships, and creates a nurturing and supportive environment for all family members. It is an essential ingredient for maintaining healthy and harmonious family dynamics.




If you want to continue doing this healing work join me in October for my live online Relationship workshop. If you are unable to join me live, you can complete my self-paced version. Details to join both are below.



Lots of hugs until next time.



Faith xoxo



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