About the Course
You realise that hanging out with a particular friend leaves you feeling worse, not better.
You begin to try and find reasons to avoid spending time with a friend or wanting to cancel plans once they've been made.
Your friend only seems to "like you" or want to spend time with you when she needs something from you.
Your friend tries to isolate you from other relationships in your life – for instance, badmouthing romantic partners or other friends.
You find yourself trying to make excuses for your friend's behaviour or "defend" your friend from other friends who are more able to see her shortcomings or poor treatment of you.
While friendships are based on social exchange, 'red flag' friends typically draw more resources from the "friendship bank" than they ever put into it.
Your friend is more comfortable when your life is falling apart and pulls away when you're empowered